Happiest Daddy

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“Who Did What?” A Marriage Game

Ah, marriage. My wife and I struggle with many of the same issues that plague other married couples with little children, like a sporadic lack of communication, occasional differences of opinion on child-raising and, most often, stupid things that I say without thinking. But there’s one argument that we seem to have over and over […]

Coping with the Cost of Living

Rent. Cell phones. Cable. Internet. Power. Water. Insurance. Gym memberships. College funds. Haircuts. Gas. Food. Credit Card payments. These are just a few of the bills and demands on our paychecks each month. Our cost of living is skyrocketing and it has been for years. Meanwhile, our paychecks have remained largely stagnant. It’s a challenging […]

Being Second. A Letter to my Son.

My dear son, Your clothes are hand me downs. Your bed had been slept in hundreds of times before you were born. Your favorite toys once brought enjoyment to another. Your entire life probably feels second hand. Rarely do you have mommy and daddy to yourself and when you do, the time is limited. You’re […]

Talkin’ Baseball

He was a career .249 hitter with just 8 home runs in more than 250 games played in the major leagues. But to me, he was the most important professional baseball player who ever lived. His name was Al Rubeling and he deserves more than a footnote in the pantheon of baseball players not necessarily […]

Feeding a Bear

He sat there staring — all furry and quiet. Safe in his domain. Through a pair of chain link fences, my son stood there wide-eyed, seeing for the first time an animal that he had only seen in books and videos. I wished I could crawl into his head and read his mind. Was he […]

The Whiner

Hi. My name is Happiestdaddy and my kid is a whiner. It’s as if he secretly enrolled in the John McEnroe School of Whining. He whines when he wants something. He whines when he can’t do something. He whines when he doesn’t get his way. He whines when we ask him to stop whining. Don’t […]

28 Things My Kids Teach Me Everyday

I don’t know much. But I know that I try my best each day to teach my kids — showing them right from wrong and how to treat others. Ultimately, I think my kids teach me at least as much as I teach them. Here are some of the blessings they provide me every day: […]

The Spirited Child

Like all families we have rules in our house. They’re not onerous: No climbing on furniture No playing in the cat box No coming out of your bed after bedtime My wife and I make the rules, of course, but our 3-year-old — a spirited child — doesn’t understand that. Here’s a recent conversation: ME: […]

Adventures in Potty Training

Over the past 12 months my wife and I have been peed on, pooped on and cleaned up more human waste than a janitor in an elementary school. The only thing missing from our potty training adventure is the large yellow industrial bucket and those flakes the custodian uses to cover vomit. This month marks […]

Dads & Doulas

Let me set the scene. My wife is a couple of months pregnant with our first child and we’re discussing who we want in the delivery room. I’m about to learn a new word — doula. “I want to hire a doula,” she told me. “A what?” I say. “A doula — a birth coach […]